People with Alzheimer's disease over time lose vocabulary and their ability to comprehend conversations.  Words become an ineffective way to communicate.  The key factors to remember about interacting with someone who has Alzheimer's is to keep it simple, use body language, and stay patient.

1. Use body language such as hand motions.  For example, instead of saying please sit down, simply pull out the chair, point to it and say please sit down.

2. Don't use negative words.  For example, instead of saying don't do that, instead say let's try this.

3. Integrate music.  For example, if your loved one with Alzheimer's hates bath time, put on her favorite song and sing together while gesturing her to the bath tub.

4. Be aware of your facial expressions.  People with Alzheimer's can pick up on negative attitudes and tones.  Maintain a compassionate attitude and if you lose your cool, step away and take a break from the task.

5. Use redirection when the person with Alzheimer's is acting out or is experiencing a down mood.  For example, if your loved one with Alzheimer's starts crying, ask her if she'd like to go for a nice walk or do a fun activity.

By understanding what the person with Alzheimer's is and is not capable of, the better we can adjust to their reality.  It is our responsibility to make the interaction easier and to find new ways to communicate.